Did you know: The start of midlife has a “soul map”?

One of the gifts of getting older is our ability to reflect and make sense of why things happened the ways they did in the past. Soul Expressions has just published a complimentary guide for women beginning the midlife soul journey, which was born out of my own look back to when soul entered my awareness and the journey of awakening and healing that life brought.

I call it a “midlife soul map”.

Thanks to the support I received over the years and my growing interest in universal human developmental cycles, I became fascinated with archetypes and astrology which highlighted major midlife themes that people go through during their 40’s. The more I explored, the more wisdom I found, and the teachings I received about the alchemy of menopause added insight to what I was experiencing.

So to assist women navigating their own middle of life journeys, I’ve summarized the themes of the start-of-midlife soul alchemy into a short guide.

In A Soul Map to Awaken Your Midlife Magic, I’ve named 5 particular inner currents our psyches go through during our 40’s, offering how to spot them and how to be with them. These 5 themes are anchored in the universal archetypal insights found in writings about the soul and midlife, and psychological teachings about the phases of life.

I know that when I was doing my own deep healing work, these themes mapped to my own experiences, along with those of my friends, family, colleagues, clients and mentors.

So if you are reading this and are somewhere around your 40’s (before, during, after), check it out and see if it helps make sense of your own inner currents.

And if you’re ready to jump in for some deep chats with me, get in touch here.

The Midlife Initiation – It’s a Thing!

By the time we enter our 40’s, our psyches are ripe for checking-in with how our life is going as we acknowledge that we have arrived in a different chapter of life labeled “midlife”, whether we welcome the idea “holy crap, I’m 40” or resist it.

Like it or not, arriving at midlife is no different than other life passages, like teenage-hood or marriage/partnership or parenthood. With my background in psychology and shamanic medicine traditions I remember learning that each of these passages were “initiations” into different expressions of self, with their own challenges and opportunities for growth.

Midlife too often brings about significant changes, challenges, and opportunities, only this time it comes with an opportunity for self-reflection at an approximate half-way point in our lives. Spiritual companionship, which is a process of exploring and deepening our spiritual journey or inner life with the guidance of a trained spiritual guide, can provide valuable support and insight during this phase.

Here’s how spiritual companionship can be particularly beneficial during midlife:

1. Self-discovery and meaning-making: Midlife can prompt questions about the meaning and purpose of life, as well as a desire to explore one's values and beliefs more deeply. Spiritual companionship provides a safe and supportive space to engage in these explorations, helping individuals connect with their inner selves and find greater clarity about their spiritual path.

2. Navigating transitions: Midlife often involves significant life transitions such as career changes, empty nesting, and shifts in relationships. A professional spiritual companion can offer guidance on how to navigate these transitions from a spiritual perspective, helping individuals find balance, resilience, and a sense of grounding.

3. Healing and integration: Past experiences, both positive and challenging, can come to the forefront during midlife. Spiritual companionship can aid in the process of healing, forgiveness, and integrating these experiences into one's life story in a way that fosters growth and transformation.

4. Renewed perspective: A professional spiritual companion can help individuals examine their beliefs, assumptions, and attitudes, allowing them to develop a more expansive and open perspective on life. This can be especially valuable during midlife when people might be reevaluating their values and priorities.

5. Connection with something greater: Many individuals seek a deeper connection with something greater than themselves during midlife. Spiritual companionship can assist in exploring this desire for connection, whether it's through sacred practices, meditation, mindfulness, or other forms of spiritual engagement.

6. Coping with mortality: Midlife often brings an increased awareness of mortality. Spiritual companionship can provide a space to explore existential questions and come to terms with the finite nature of life, fostering a sense of peace and acceptance.

Soul Expressions offers a sanctuary for exploring these themes, leaning into the perennial wisdom of the ages and various spiritual traditions. The goal is to help you feel safe as we explore often-times challenging terrain from our past and present, without needing to fix anything and accepting that life can be hard.

But it can also be healing and inspiring as we look forward. So, if you find yourself in the middle part of life with questions and curiosity about the next few steps in life, book an exploration chat to see if Soul Expressions can support you.